Sometimes a guy will play hard to get just to win. He wants to know he can treat you poorly and still have you chase him. He is leading you on with minimal effort, and when you ask about it, he can say he hasn’t done anything to lead you on. Players only love you when they’re playing.
Why do guys like hard to get?
greater perceived mate-value.” The distance you put between yourself and potential partners, in other words, can make you seem more attractive. “It implies quality,” says Gary Lewandowski, a professor of psychology whose research focuses on relationships.
What are the signs that he is playing hard to get?
- 8 He’s A Bit Creepy.
- 9 You’re A Secret.
- 10 He Guards His Past.
- 11 You Rarely See Him.
- 12 He Drops Future Hints.
- 13 You’re Insecure.
- 14 He Texts Sporadically.
- 15 He’s Hot And Cold.
How do you attract a guy playing hard to get?
Compliment him, ask how he’s doing, and generally show him that you care. If you want him to stick around, you have to put in some of the effort. Just one simple compliment can go a long way. Try to give him at least one compliment every time you hang out.